Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Monday, May 4, 2009
The Annual Coordination Sale!
The Spring Wedding Coordination SaleWe absolutely LOVE spring time! The flowers, the green grass, the long walks, the fresh scent of rain, and the best part, the excitement of brides that anticipate our spring sale every year!
And, if you're anything like me, you love a good sale. I work very hard for my money, so I'm the first to run strait to the back of the store and start digging through the messy array of disorganized racks. Some might call it a frustrating experience, never finding the right size, elbow to elbow with a mass of adrenalin filled women, it's not for everyone, but I LOVE it!
As a Wedding Planner, my job is to make brides lives easier. And, as a referral based business, I decided that when we started, I would have 1 month a year, to say THANK YOU, and have a fabulous sale! And it's June, it's finally here, want the details?
Get ready for it...
This package normally costs $889, and for the next 30 days, (until July 15th) will be available to brides for $599!
(Now ladies, we are only taking 4 brides for this sale, the first 4 to book their wedding day will be accepted!
You can relax and bask in the joy of the happiest day of your life and let us worry about the details! (Our past brides have RAVED about our work, and our happiest brides snagged us during a spring time sale!!)
Our passionate and experienced wedding planners will ensure that everything you planned for is exquisite and more than you could have imagined! See below for the details on how we will ensure everything runs in seamless perfection, just as you’d always dreamed of!
Preparing for the wedding
• Initial Consultation
• Wedding Day Itinerary
• Vendor Confirmations
• Wedding Day Contact Sheet
The Rehearsal
• Direct the processionals, recessionals and receiving line
• Review key details of the wedding day with the bride and bridal party
• Review with the ushers the guests to be seated in reserved rows
On your wedding day
• Set up of pew and alter flowers, and ceremony essentials
• Coordination of flower and decor deliveries
• Coordination of photographer and videographer
• Distributing of bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages
• Coordination of ceremony seating with ushers
• Line up and coordination of processional
• Setting up and placement of sign-in table, gift table, cake table and head table
• Distribution of centerpieces, placement of place cards, guest favors, menu cards, and table numbers
• Ensuring reception set up is done according to your wishes
• Coordination with emcee for dinner and speeches
• Coordination with caterers and DJ
• Wedding planners emergency kit
You deserve every bit of glamour and elegance you always dreamed of, and you don't need to break the bank to get it! Our summer is filling up quickly; contact us today to reserve your wedding date!
Friday, April 10, 2009
Avoid the dreaded Bridezilla syndrome!
They all said it wouldn't happen to them. We never want to imagine ourselves ripping through the sale racks at the local bridal fair, barking order at our ever so terrified and loyal girlfriends, rolling our eyes at the poor barista at Starbucks.
“I SAID a grande non fat soy extra hot triple tazo chai with one extra pump of vanilla!”
The stress of planning your wedding is certainly a big one, this is our big day, and it’s going to be everything we dreamed of, now that’s a big responsibility!
Here are 5 tips that will help you curb your bridezilla like urges!
GET HELP!
Unfortunately, your inner control freak is really going to have to budge a little, and just admit that you shouldn't be taking on this entire process by yourself. Not without facing stress that results in our Starbucks example above.
Planning a wedding is not a linear process, it is extremely integrated, which means there is no perfect checklist that says once you have done the flowers you can do the decor; and once you have your dresses you can do the guest list, etc. Let me demonstrate with a visual aid. Observe this darling wedding photo (Courtesy of Snippet & Ink Daily Wedding Inspiration)
“I SAID a grande non fat soy extra hot triple tazo chai with one extra pump of vanilla!”
The stress of planning your wedding is certainly a big one, this is our big day, and it’s going to be everything we dreamed of, now that’s a big responsibility!
Here are 5 tips that will help you curb your bridezilla like urges!
GET HELP!
Unfortunately, your inner control freak is really going to have to budge a little, and just admit that you shouldn't be taking on this entire process by yourself. Not without facing stress that results in our Starbucks example above.
Planning a wedding is not a linear process, it is extremely integrated, which means there is no perfect checklist that says once you have done the flowers you can do the decor; and once you have your dresses you can do the guest list, etc. Let me demonstrate with a visual aid. Observe this darling wedding photo (Courtesy of Snippet & Ink Daily Wedding Inspiration)
Notice how every aspect of this wedding is in perfect harmony. Everything compliments everything else, the theme, the setting, from her dress, to the cake, to the chairs that your guests sit on; every detail of this wedding comes together in perfect harmony, which is I’m sure was everything and more she imagined it would be.
Planning your wedding will require you to deal with caterers, flower shops, decor rental companies, the DJ, your emcee, the dress maker, and so many other things all at once. All with different time lines, all with different payment schedules; and all requiring a certain amount of creativity and flare to ensure your wedding is not a cookie cutter event (we have all been to one!).
A wedding planner will take a lot of pressure off by helping you choose a design, select your vendors, (the perfect vendors that are right for your tastes and your budget) and making sure everything is done when it’s supposed to be, and being by your side on your wedding day to ensure you can shine in the spotlight.
(Talk to us about how we can help you create your dream wedding, and take care of all the not so glamorous tasks!)
2. STAY ORGANIZED
My best friend and I were chatting on the phone the other night, talking about the books we’re reading. We’re both the type to have a few on the go at any given time. So in describing the books she’s really into these days, she mentions a book on organization that she picked up the other day, and how she got it for 50% off! Can’t go wrong with that. Then with slight hesitation she says “Wait, were did I put that book?”
With phone numbers on random post-it notes, eye liner reminders on your mirror, and messy piles of paper on your desk, you’re setting yourself up for a disaster! If you do not take control of your wedding, it will take over you and leave you drowning in wedding magazines and pulling you hair out!
In order to effectively plan a wedding, you need to organize, prioritize, and not only make lists, but ensure that the items on the list are actually getting done! (We’re all guilty of making lists and never looking at them again!)
• Keep an organizer and document all your appointments; even if you swear you won’t forget, it’s always a good idea to write it down!
• Instead of hauling around piles of wedding magazines, clip the articles/pictures that inspire you and make an inspiration board, like the picture above. Put this up by your desk and let it inspire you and remind you exactly what you’re trying to accomplish when you’re working on your wedding!
• Make a budget, documenting exactly what you're spending, when you’re making payments, and when your next payments are due. Not only will this keep you on top of your finances, but you’re more likely to be cautious of where your money is going when you can see exactly what you’re spending!
• Keep a vendor/contact list. If you’re anything like me, there’s a lot of work on the go, and having my suppliers contact information at my finger tips makes life a lot easier. Put your wedding planners, florists, caterers, and all other important numbers in your phone right now!
3. MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF
I know your laughing at me right now, thinking “You want me to take 'me' time, have you seen my 'to do' list!”
Well, congratulations on making a list, and making sure you complete it; however, if you don’t make time to relax and enjoy non wedding related activities, you will burn out in a hurry! As a wedding planner myself, I know all about the urge to want to stay up until ridiculous hours of the night with wedding magazines, circling, ripping out, mixing and matching colors, but this system got really old, really fast. Because planning a wedding is such a time consuming task, you need to ensure that you have the energy, and the will, to keep going. I see it all the time, he just proposed, and during her engagement dinner that night, she’s already on her blackberry getting her girlfriends to sign up for the trade show, and asking the florist to meet her for coffee!
The first month is exciting and complete adrenalin! Bridal shows, trying on dresses, tasting wine, eating cake, eating more cake; but the excitement always wears off and this poor bride ends up exhausted and fed up! Make sure to always pace yourself, and don’t try to cram too much into your schedule. Have dinner with your friends, and do not talk about the wedding the entire time. This is going to take will power, but you will thank you self, and your bridesmaids will also thank you! Make sure to go to your weekly yoga class, try making a new dish every now and then, go to movies, drive to the mountains, and spend quality time with your fiancee! Trust me, he will really appreciate this!
And of course, once again, you will have far more time to bask in the blissful state of being engaged when you have a wedding planner to help you!
We would love to sit down with you and talk about how we can help make your wedding dreams come true.
Love and happiness,
Louise
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Testimonials
What people are saying about us…
People are raving about FRESH Weddings...
"We picked Louise as our wedding planner because we want to be able to enjoy the process and not be worried about the details. We chose Louise because we enjoyed her personality and clicked with her. We liked her enthusiasm!"
_ Paulina on her wedding lanner, Louise Daly (2008)
"We picked Louise as our wedding planner because we want to be able to enjoy the process and not be worried about the details. We chose Louise because we enjoyed her personality and clicked with her. We liked her enthusiasm!"
_ Paulina on her wedding lanner, Louise Daly (2008)
'Dearest Louise and the FRESH Team, Jason and I cannot thank you enough for putting together such a beautiful wedding for us! All your hard work has paid off, as everyone just loves what you have done! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!! For making our day so special!"
_ Michelle on her wedding planner, Louise Daly (2008)
Wedding Decoration and Set Up
Ceremony set up and decoration
Ceremony decorating: Pew and alter flowers, petals, vases, candles, alter arch, aisle carpet, tables, chair covers and sashes, ceremony essentials/aids, programs, reading material, Kleenex, fans, refreshments, etc.
Reception set up and decoration
Reception decorating: Centerpieces, flowers, guest favours, gift table, sign in table, tables and chairs, chair covers, sashes, table covers and decor, plate and dinner settings, head table decor, head table back drop, lighting, candles, other reception decor, etc.
Ceremony and reception set up and decoration
Let us take care of everything. We offer full ceremony and reception set up, decoration, and take down. Rates on this service vary, please contact us.
Wedding planning hourly consultation
We will sit with you and help you will anything you need professional advice on. For example, budget or itinerary development, seating plan organization, theme and floral development, vendor selection, etc.
Rates
Please contact us for rates on the above services.
Ceremony decorating: Pew and alter flowers, petals, vases, candles, alter arch, aisle carpet, tables, chair covers and sashes, ceremony essentials/aids, programs, reading material, Kleenex, fans, refreshments, etc.
Reception set up and decoration
Reception decorating: Centerpieces, flowers, guest favours, gift table, sign in table, tables and chairs, chair covers, sashes, table covers and decor, plate and dinner settings, head table decor, head table back drop, lighting, candles, other reception decor, etc.
Ceremony and reception set up and decoration
Let us take care of everything. We offer full ceremony and reception set up, decoration, and take down. Rates on this service vary, please contact us.
Wedding planning hourly consultation
We will sit with you and help you will anything you need professional advice on. For example, budget or itinerary development, seating plan organization, theme and floral development, vendor selection, etc.
Rates
Please contact us for rates on the above services.
Wedding Planning
Our weddings are always elegant and outstanding!
We are always up to date on the latest trends, to ensure that every wedding is carried out with a fresh touch! We are constantly creating, and exploring new ideas, and choosing vendors based on exactly what our bride wants.
Professional Planning
• Initial Consultation to discuss theme, design, budget and wedding details
• Monthly in person meetings to discuss planning progress
• Unlimited phone and email access to your wedding planner for professional advice and progress updates
• Wedding budget, itinerary, vendor contact sheet, and planning progress sheet
• Vendor selection in the following categories: Ceremony and reception venues, catering, DJ, photography, videography, invitations, rentals, flowers, hair stylists, makeup artists, bar service, wedding favors, wedding attire, hotel for bride and groom and guests, transportation, bridal party gifts, lighting, decor, and other special vendor needs.
• Design and theme development
The Rehearsal
• Direct the processionals, recessionals and receiving line
• Review all key details of the wedding day with the bride and bridal party
• Review with the ushers the guests to be seated in reserved rows
On your wedding day
• Set up of pew and alter flowers and ceremony essentials
• Coordination of flower and decor deliveries
• Coordination of photography and videography
• Distributing of bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages
• Coordination of ceremony seating with ushers
• Line up and coordination of processional
• Setting up and placement of sign-in table, gift table, cake table and head table
• Distribution of centerpieces, placement of place cards, guest favors, menu cards, and table numbers
• Ensuring reception set up is done according to your wishes
• Coordination with emcee for dinner and speeches
• Coordination with caterers and DJ
• Wedding planners emergency kit
Our wedding planners will make your wedding dreams come true, please call us for rates on this package.
We are always up to date on the latest trends, to ensure that every wedding is carried out with a fresh touch! We are constantly creating, and exploring new ideas, and choosing vendors based on exactly what our bride wants.
Professional Planning
• Initial Consultation to discuss theme, design, budget and wedding details
• Monthly in person meetings to discuss planning progress
• Unlimited phone and email access to your wedding planner for professional advice and progress updates
• Wedding budget, itinerary, vendor contact sheet, and planning progress sheet
• Vendor selection in the following categories: Ceremony and reception venues, catering, DJ, photography, videography, invitations, rentals, flowers, hair stylists, makeup artists, bar service, wedding favors, wedding attire, hotel for bride and groom and guests, transportation, bridal party gifts, lighting, decor, and other special vendor needs.
• Design and theme development
The Rehearsal
• Direct the processionals, recessionals and receiving line
• Review all key details of the wedding day with the bride and bridal party
• Review with the ushers the guests to be seated in reserved rows
On your wedding day
• Set up of pew and alter flowers and ceremony essentials
• Coordination of flower and decor deliveries
• Coordination of photography and videography
• Distributing of bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages
• Coordination of ceremony seating with ushers
• Line up and coordination of processional
• Setting up and placement of sign-in table, gift table, cake table and head table
• Distribution of centerpieces, placement of place cards, guest favors, menu cards, and table numbers
• Ensuring reception set up is done according to your wishes
• Coordination with emcee for dinner and speeches
• Coordination with caterers and DJ
• Wedding planners emergency kit
Our wedding planners will make your wedding dreams come true, please call us for rates on this package.
Wedding Coordination
You can relax and bask in the joy of the happiest day of your life! Let us worry about the details!
Our passionate and experienced Wedding Planners will ensure that everything you planned for is exquisite and more than you could have imagined!
A FRESH Wedding Planner will be a bride’s best friend!
Preparing for the wedding
• Initial Consultation to discuss everything you have planned for your big day
• Wedding Day Itinerary
• Vendor Confirmations
• Wedding Day Contact Sheet
The Rehearsal
• Direct the processionals, recessionals and receiving line
• Review key details of the wedding day with the bride and bridal party
• Review with the ushers the guests to be seated in reserved rows
On your wedding day
• Set up of pew and alter flowers, and ceremony essentials
• Coordination of flower and decor deliveries
• Coordination of photographer and videographer
• Distributing of bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages
• Coordination of ceremony seating with ushers
• Line up and coordination of processional
• Setting up and placement of sign-in table, gift table, cake table and head table
• Distribution of centerpieces, placement of place cards, guest favors, menu cards, and table numbers
• Ensuring reception set up is done according to your wishes
• Coordination with emcee for dinner and speeches
• Coordination with caterers and DJ
• Wedding planners emergency kit
We will take care of everything, so you can enjoy every beautiful moment of your wedding.
Please contact us for rates on this package.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Elegant and Outstanding Weddings
Dearest bride, how can we make your life easier?
A bit about us…
FRESH Event Management produces a broad range of unique and stunning Weddings!
Our passionate and experienced wedding planners executes every wedding with attention to detail, creativity and are constantly improving with new and fresh ideas!
From the venue, the flowers, caterers, and guest list; we ensure that every last detail is taken care of, and that each bride has the wedding she has always dreamed of!
We strive to go over and above your expectations to ensure absolutely every detail is exquisite and more than you could have imagined!
FRESH has produced some of Calgary’s most beautiful weddings!
A bit about us…
FRESH Event Management produces a broad range of unique and stunning Weddings!
Our passionate and experienced wedding planners executes every wedding with attention to detail, creativity and are constantly improving with new and fresh ideas!
From the venue, the flowers, caterers, and guest list; we ensure that every last detail is taken care of, and that each bride has the wedding she has always dreamed of!
We strive to go over and above your expectations to ensure absolutely every detail is exquisite and more than you could have imagined!
FRESH has produced some of Calgary’s most beautiful weddings!
FAQ's
What are the benefits of hiring a wedding planner?
A wedding planner can use her contacts in the wedding industry to find the right vendors suited to your taste, style, and budget. She will normally have special relationships with these vendors, and can often get you a wholesale price, which can end up saving you a lot of money in the long run. A good wedding planner will be able to customize your wedding based on your needs and wants, while working in your budget. You will save time, as they will find all your vendors for you, create a wedding budget, planning timeline, and a wedding day itinerary for you. She will coordinate with all your vendors to ensure everything will run smoothly on your wedding day. A good wedding planner will be up to date with all the wedding trends and styles to ensure the best of the best is chosen for your wedding!
What’s the difference between a wedding planner and wedding coordinator?
A wedding planner plans every element of your wedding with you, from the venue, the flowers, the catering, to dresses, invitations and photography. They are by your side the entire time taking care of everything and putting together the wedding you desire.
A wedding coordinator will take care of everything leading up to, and on your wedding day. This includes confirming all the vendors, all the wedding details, making a wedding day itinerary, hosting a rehearsal, basic setup of ceremony and reception, and coordination of absolutely everything on your wedding day.
How do I know if I can afford a wedding planner?
A wedding planner used to be a luxury that only the wealthy could afford. These days with limited venue options, and overwhelming amounts of options, a wedding planner is becoming more of a staple in the wedding planning process. Your wedding planner will sit down with you and look at your budget and your priorities for your wedding. It should cost no more than 20-25% of your whole wedding budget.
Why should I choose a FRESH wedding planner?
With so many different wedding planners out there, it’s hard to choose the right one! The absolute most important thing is that you connect with your wedding planner. She should be easy to talk to, approachable, and should be able to guide you through the wedding planning process with ease. Sit down with a wedding planner and notice how they make you feel. Comfortable and exited, or stressed and overwhelmed?
A wedding planner should be resourceful, organized, and knowledgeable about weddings and event management. Feel free to ask what sort of experience and education they have. You should ask if you can speak to past clients about their experience with the wedding planner, and ask to see pictures of past weddings.
Clients of 2008 all reported a phenomenal experience with us. See our testimonials to see how brides are raving about us!
I have no clue about decorating, can you help me?
Yes we can, we are here for you every step of the wedding planning process!
We will help you choose the right decor & floral theme based on your vision and budget, and help you find the best rentals and flower shops.
Can you set up and take down my wedding?
Yes, our wedding savvy team can set up, decorate, and take down your entire wedding for you.
What are my payment options?
We understand that wedding planning can be extremely costly, and we are here to help you in every way we can. We have numerous payment options for you to choose from. We can sit down and look at your budget to determine what payment options are going to be right for you.
A wedding planner can use her contacts in the wedding industry to find the right vendors suited to your taste, style, and budget. She will normally have special relationships with these vendors, and can often get you a wholesale price, which can end up saving you a lot of money in the long run. A good wedding planner will be able to customize your wedding based on your needs and wants, while working in your budget. You will save time, as they will find all your vendors for you, create a wedding budget, planning timeline, and a wedding day itinerary for you. She will coordinate with all your vendors to ensure everything will run smoothly on your wedding day. A good wedding planner will be up to date with all the wedding trends and styles to ensure the best of the best is chosen for your wedding!
How far in advance should I hire a wedding planner?
Your wedding planner will need anywhere from 6 months to a year to plan your wedding. After chatting with you about your wedding vision, we'll have a good idea of how long the project will take.
What’s the difference between a wedding planner and wedding coordinator?
A wedding planner plans every element of your wedding with you, from the venue, the flowers, the catering, to dresses, invitations and photography. They are by your side the entire time taking care of everything and putting together the wedding you desire.
A wedding coordinator will take care of everything leading up to, and on your wedding day. This includes confirming all the vendors, all the wedding details, making a wedding day itinerary, hosting a rehearsal, basic setup of ceremony and reception, and coordination of absolutely everything on your wedding day.
How do I know if I can afford a wedding planner?
A wedding planner used to be a luxury that only the wealthy could afford. These days with limited venue options, and overwhelming amounts of options, a wedding planner is becoming more of a staple in the wedding planning process. Your wedding planner will sit down with you and look at your budget and your priorities for your wedding. It should cost no more than 20-25% of your whole wedding budget.
Why should I choose a FRESH wedding planner?
With so many different wedding planners out there, it’s hard to choose the right one! The absolute most important thing is that you connect with your wedding planner. She should be easy to talk to, approachable, and should be able to guide you through the wedding planning process with ease. Sit down with a wedding planner and notice how they make you feel. Comfortable and exited, or stressed and overwhelmed?
A wedding planner should be resourceful, organized, and knowledgeable about weddings and event management. Feel free to ask what sort of experience and education they have. You should ask if you can speak to past clients about their experience with the wedding planner, and ask to see pictures of past weddings.
Clients of 2008 all reported a phenomenal experience with us. See our testimonials to see how brides are raving about us!
I have no clue about decorating, can you help me?
Yes we can, we are here for you every step of the wedding planning process!
We will help you choose the right decor & floral theme based on your vision and budget, and help you find the best rentals and flower shops.
Can you set up and take down my wedding?
Yes, our wedding savvy team can set up, decorate, and take down your entire wedding for you.
What are my payment options?
We understand that wedding planning can be extremely costly, and we are here to help you in every way we can. We have numerous payment options for you to choose from. We can sit down and look at your budget to determine what payment options are going to be right for you.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
FRESH Weddings: Paulina and Cris II
As promised earlier, here are more pictures of the stunning de la Cruz wedding!
photos courtesy of Lindsay Skeans, wedding photographer from Calgary, AB
photos courtesy of Lindsay Skeans, wedding photographer from Calgary, AB
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
My Best Friends Wedding Part 1
This wedding was as earthy and natural as this darling couple themselves.
A bit about Septembers green bride. Tammy was fortunate to have tons of supportive friends, and a best friend that’s a wedding planner. With her 2 daughters, fiancee, rambunctious puggle puppy and a house in McKenzie Towne to take care of, she wasn't able find the time to spend lovely afternoons indulging in endless wedding smut down at her local Starbucks.
As for being a bride, she's absolutely completely laid back and easy going, as long as she gets a few specific things she just had to have! So, what made this wedding amazing?
Earthy tones. The green and brown was a beautiful accent to the natural and easy going feel of this laid back, yet classy wedding.
White Hydrangeas and Green Lilies are like Romeo and Juliet. These two flowers in a simple green pot wrapped with a chocolate brown ribbon made the sweetest centerpieces.
The Children. If you find special ways to incorporate kids into the wedding, like giving them special jobs, giving them a special section of the reception room, and keeping them entertained, they can be wonderfully joyful, and very entertaining at your wedding. Their blissful joy and adorable little outfits brought even more happiness to this couples day.
An upbeat first dance. Instead of bringing everyone to tears in a Celine Dion type heart breaker, they waltzed merrily to a cheery and bright “Lucky” by Jason Mraz.
Stuck for a stagette idea?
How about an organic wine tasting in the park? Accompanied with some organic fruit and cheese.
Need a fun bridal shower idea?
Did someone say shower? Replace your ordinary guest book with a white shower curtain liner. Have the guests sign it in permanent marker. Then they can enjoy everyone’s wishes for them while having a shower!
A bit about Septembers green bride. Tammy was fortunate to have tons of supportive friends, and a best friend that’s a wedding planner. With her 2 daughters, fiancee, rambunctious puggle puppy and a house in McKenzie Towne to take care of, she wasn't able find the time to spend lovely afternoons indulging in endless wedding smut down at her local Starbucks.
As for being a bride, she's absolutely completely laid back and easy going, as long as she gets a few specific things she just had to have! So, what made this wedding amazing?
Earthy tones. The green and brown was a beautiful accent to the natural and easy going feel of this laid back, yet classy wedding.
White Hydrangeas and Green Lilies are like Romeo and Juliet. These two flowers in a simple green pot wrapped with a chocolate brown ribbon made the sweetest centerpieces.
The Children. If you find special ways to incorporate kids into the wedding, like giving them special jobs, giving them a special section of the reception room, and keeping them entertained, they can be wonderfully joyful, and very entertaining at your wedding. Their blissful joy and adorable little outfits brought even more happiness to this couples day.
An upbeat first dance. Instead of bringing everyone to tears in a Celine Dion type heart breaker, they waltzed merrily to a cheery and bright “Lucky” by Jason Mraz.
Stuck for a stagette idea?
How about an organic wine tasting in the park? Accompanied with some organic fruit and cheese.
Need a fun bridal shower idea?
Did someone say shower? Replace your ordinary guest book with a white shower curtain liner. Have the guests sign it in permanent marker. Then they can enjoy everyone’s wishes for them while having a shower!
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Giving back
With the talk about over consumption of weddings these days, more and more couples are finding ways to show their generous nature, and give back to society.
We are becoming so aware of how fortunate we are to be healthy and to have so many luxuries in life.
We suggest giving to a charity, and making each guest a card saying you've made a donation on their behalf.
This gift is more beautiful and has more impact than anything you can pick up at Reid's.
Check out our suggested list of charities.
But remember to donate to something that is close to your heart and that will be meaningful to your guests.
The Canadian Cancer Society.
The largest charitable funder of cancer research in Canada. The Canadian Cancer Society will make the cards for all your guests when you donate to their wedding tribute program.
http://www.cancer.ca/Alberta-NWT/How%20you%20can%20help/AB-Make%20a%20donation/AB-Donate%20in%20celebration.aspx?sc_lang=en
Save the Children Canada.
They are the largest not-for-profit Canadian organization advocating for children's rights today.
http://www.savethechildren.ca/
The David Suzuki Foundation.
They seek to provide a clean economy that does not threaten Natural services that support all life.
http://www.davidsuzuki.org/
The Canadian Diabetes Association.
Works to promote healthy living amongst Canadians and eliminate diabetes.
http://www.diabetes.ca/
The Canadian Centre for Abuse Awareness
Community outreach programs for men women and children suffering from abuse.
http://www.abusehurts.com/
To see a list of other Canadian Charities see
http://www.canadian-charities.com/
We are becoming so aware of how fortunate we are to be healthy and to have so many luxuries in life.
We suggest giving to a charity, and making each guest a card saying you've made a donation on their behalf.
This gift is more beautiful and has more impact than anything you can pick up at Reid's.
Check out our suggested list of charities.
But remember to donate to something that is close to your heart and that will be meaningful to your guests.
The Canadian Cancer Society.
The largest charitable funder of cancer research in Canada. The Canadian Cancer Society will make the cards for all your guests when you donate to their wedding tribute program.
http://www.cancer.ca/Alberta-NWT/How%20you%20can%20help/AB-Make%20a%20donation/AB-Donate%20in%20celebration.aspx?sc_lang=en
Save the Children Canada.
They are the largest not-for-profit Canadian organization advocating for children's rights today.
http://www.savethechildren.ca/
The David Suzuki Foundation.
They seek to provide a clean economy that does not threaten Natural services that support all life.
http://www.davidsuzuki.org/
The Canadian Diabetes Association.
Works to promote healthy living amongst Canadians and eliminate diabetes.
http://www.diabetes.ca/
The Canadian Centre for Abuse Awareness
Community outreach programs for men women and children suffering from abuse.
http://www.abusehurts.com/
To see a list of other Canadian Charities see
http://www.canadian-charities.com/
Friday, September 5, 2008
The Groom
Dear beautiful bride to be;
This is the most exciting and stressful time of your life!
You have so much to think about and so many fabulous ideas you don’t even know where to start!
Amidst all the excitement, we do tend to get a little carried away, and except our men to step to the side and let us handle everything. I mean, HE hasn’t been planning this day since he was 12! And he would have no clue which flowers to choose or how the perfect chair covers are an absolute MUST for a fab looking party!
Maybe your groomie-to-be isn’t the savvy wedding pro that you are, but he is going to have a few ideas that he wants incorporated into the wedding, and it’s important to make sure he gets the wedding he wants as well. Yes, it is your big day, however; when you finally get there, you’ll see that the enjoyment of everyone around you, including your new hubby, is what’s going to really make you glow.
7 tips: How to include your Groomie-to-be in the wedding planning
1) Just ask him! You’ve asked him thousands of times how your dress looks and for his opinion on everything else, and now you need to ask him what’s really important to him, and you’d be surprised what he’ll have to say! Don’t assume none of the details matter to him. And if wearing converse kicks on the wedding day is on his “MUST HAVE” list, then LET HIM! You’re going to have the wedding of your dreams…why can’t he have the shoes he wants?
2) Bring him to meetings! Maybe he won’t care so much about looking through thousands of invitation samples, but he should be part of the important meetings, like updates from your wedding planner, and choosing the catering. Food is of UTMOST importance to men at their wedding, or any day for that matter.
3) Positive Reinforcement. While managing budgets, itineraries, and with endless decisions to make, its easy to forget that he as well, is under a lot of pressure. Like anything from here on out, you two are going to need to be a support system for each other. Make sure to tell him often that he is doing a FAB job, and that you genuinely appreciate everything he does to help out.
4) Chill Out! Now, how good are you two going to feel on your wedding day after working like dogs for a year! Take a day trip, go for a hike, or just have a cozy night in with your favorite dish together. Relaxing and enjoying time together will take your mind of the wedding stress, and help you two remember why you decided to be forever one.
5) He’s a man, with his own mind. Brides complain all the time that his ideas are ‘tacky’ or ‘silly’. Without even realizing, we suggest that they don’t know what their doing and this can be very hurtful! Try to be open minded to his ideas, even if they are not what you had pictured. He may want Guinness served at the bar, or hate the idea of a receiving line, and your job is to just understand that even though you don’t see his vision, that it’s important to him, therefore, should be important to you as well. Be the laid back broad he fell in love with and you’ll be surprised how much more you can get away with, when you're so understanding with him.
6) Change your wedding terminology. When talking about your ideas and decisions for the wedding, try using ‘We” instead of “I”. This ensures that your ideas are things that you both want, and if he doesn’t agree, this gives him the opportunity to let you know. (IE: “We love the hydrangeas with the green lilies”, or “We have decided to only invite close friends and family”)
7) Share the spotlight with a twist! It’s not traditional for the bride to thank her new husband on their wedding day, but how wonderful would that be? Surprise him with this small gesture, to add that extra something special to his wedding day.
This is the most exciting and stressful time of your life!
You have so much to think about and so many fabulous ideas you don’t even know where to start!
Amidst all the excitement, we do tend to get a little carried away, and except our men to step to the side and let us handle everything. I mean, HE hasn’t been planning this day since he was 12! And he would have no clue which flowers to choose or how the perfect chair covers are an absolute MUST for a fab looking party!
Maybe your groomie-to-be isn’t the savvy wedding pro that you are, but he is going to have a few ideas that he wants incorporated into the wedding, and it’s important to make sure he gets the wedding he wants as well. Yes, it is your big day, however; when you finally get there, you’ll see that the enjoyment of everyone around you, including your new hubby, is what’s going to really make you glow.
7 tips: How to include your Groomie-to-be in the wedding planning
1) Just ask him! You’ve asked him thousands of times how your dress looks and for his opinion on everything else, and now you need to ask him what’s really important to him, and you’d be surprised what he’ll have to say! Don’t assume none of the details matter to him. And if wearing converse kicks on the wedding day is on his “MUST HAVE” list, then LET HIM! You’re going to have the wedding of your dreams…why can’t he have the shoes he wants?
2) Bring him to meetings! Maybe he won’t care so much about looking through thousands of invitation samples, but he should be part of the important meetings, like updates from your wedding planner, and choosing the catering. Food is of UTMOST importance to men at their wedding, or any day for that matter.
3) Positive Reinforcement. While managing budgets, itineraries, and with endless decisions to make, its easy to forget that he as well, is under a lot of pressure. Like anything from here on out, you two are going to need to be a support system for each other. Make sure to tell him often that he is doing a FAB job, and that you genuinely appreciate everything he does to help out.
4) Chill Out! Now, how good are you two going to feel on your wedding day after working like dogs for a year! Take a day trip, go for a hike, or just have a cozy night in with your favorite dish together. Relaxing and enjoying time together will take your mind of the wedding stress, and help you two remember why you decided to be forever one.
5) He’s a man, with his own mind. Brides complain all the time that his ideas are ‘tacky’ or ‘silly’. Without even realizing, we suggest that they don’t know what their doing and this can be very hurtful! Try to be open minded to his ideas, even if they are not what you had pictured. He may want Guinness served at the bar, or hate the idea of a receiving line, and your job is to just understand that even though you don’t see his vision, that it’s important to him, therefore, should be important to you as well. Be the laid back broad he fell in love with and you’ll be surprised how much more you can get away with, when you're so understanding with him.
6) Change your wedding terminology. When talking about your ideas and decisions for the wedding, try using ‘We” instead of “I”. This ensures that your ideas are things that you both want, and if he doesn’t agree, this gives him the opportunity to let you know. (IE: “We love the hydrangeas with the green lilies”, or “We have decided to only invite close friends and family”)
7) Share the spotlight with a twist! It’s not traditional for the bride to thank her new husband on their wedding day, but how wonderful would that be? Surprise him with this small gesture, to add that extra something special to his wedding day.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
FRESH Weddings: Paulina and Cris
"In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities." Janos Arnay
This latest FRESH Wedding will make even the most skeptical believe in fairy tales. This wedding was every bit as beautiful and classic as they are..and FRESH Wedding Planners made it all happen for them! What made this wedding great?
This latest FRESH Wedding will make even the most skeptical believe in fairy tales. This wedding was every bit as beautiful and classic as they are..and FRESH Wedding Planners made it all happen for them! What made this wedding great?
Colour that make an impact. The bold and daring mixture of ivory and cranberry colours infused this wedding with a distinct classiness.
Lighting. We brought in special lighting to give the room a soft ominous glow that covered the room in sheer romance and peace.
**FRESH TIP: Your DJ should focus on the music, not the lighting! The lighting they bring is everything BUT classy and romantic, its normally quite harsh, and flashy. Although appropriate for a party, it does not set the mood for dinner time.
Sweet Gifts. All guests were give a chocolate bar with handmade wrapping with the newly weds initials..this is wonderful because none of us need anymore matches, and well, who doesn't love chocolate?
Decor. The large bowls filled with rocks, water, red rose petals, and ivory floating candles made for a simple, elegant centerpiece for the tables.
**FRESH TIP: Us wedding planners LOVE candles, but the venue doesn't always allow them, so be sure to double check that the venue will allow them. If not, try flame-less candles as a substitute.
The Culture: The national dance of Chile is called the Cueca. This dance has rich historical roots in both African and Native American cultures. The Cueca is a parody of the courtship of a chicken and rooster. The dancers wave handkerchiefs above their heads during the dance. These handkerchiefs can symbolize the feathers of the bird or the rooster’s comb.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Wedding Trends in Canada
How old IS the average bride?
How much does the average reception cost?
How many women are actually taking his last name?
These questions surround every bride in their journey to the alter...
FRESH found the wedding trends in Canada in a poll that Wedding Bells.ca did on over 2000 bride to be's that was conducted in spring 2008.
(See http://www.weddingbells.ca/ for more details)
Who is She?
Average age is 29 among engaged women in Canada
77% already live with their fiancé/significant other
Average household income after marriage is $83,811
The Proposal
47% of grooms asked for permission from the bride’s father before proposing
62% of grooms got down on one knee to propose
88% of brides received an engagement ring at the time of engagement; 30% of the time the ring was picked out together
The Big Day
Average expected cost is $19,038
Average wedding size is 145 guests; 22% have 200+ guests
56% of weddings occur between June and August: June (15%), July (15%), August (26%)
40% of engagements occur between December and February: December (22%), January (7%), February (11%)
Average length of engagement is 18 months
Show Me the Money
Funding for wedding: bride/groom savings (47%), bride/groom loans (14%), family (35%)
The wedding is but one spending occasion: bridal shower (85%), rehearsal party (80%), stagette (71%), engagement party (29%)
Budget breakdown based on anticipated costs:
Reception venue = $7,063
Bridal gown = $1,028
Wedding bands = $1,489
Photographer = $1,619
Wedding cake = $327
Florist/Decor = $865
Transportation/Limo = $563
DJ/Musicians = $808
Honeymoon = $4,126
Guest favours = $360 (will pay up to $469)
Bridesmaids’ Dresses = $287 (will pay up to $344)
Bridal/Bridesmaid Shoes = $109 (will pay up to $148)
Stationery = $329 (will pay up to $430)
Videographer = $792 (will pay up to $1,000)
The Honeymoon
The average honeymoon lasts 8.7 nights away from home
71% plan to spend their honeymoon outside of Canada
50% plan to stay at an all-inclusive resort
Traditional vs. Modern
69% of brides plan to take their fiancé’s last name
87% of grooms will not see the wedding dress until the wedding day
21% agree that sex before marriage is not a good idea
76% agree their future spouse does his fair share of domestic duties
68% of brides will try and use eco-friendly products and services on their wedding day
41% think it’s acceptable to return a wedding gift for cash
Things That Make You Go Hmmmm…
34% find wedding planning to be more stressful than enjoyable
23% agree a prenuptial agreement is a good idea
39% anticipate having disagreements with their in-laws
21% are having more disagreements with their fiancé since becoming engaged
31% say their sex life has improved since getting engaged
24% claim not to be completely over past relationships
How much does the average reception cost?
How many women are actually taking his last name?
These questions surround every bride in their journey to the alter...
FRESH found the wedding trends in Canada in a poll that Wedding Bells.ca did on over 2000 bride to be's that was conducted in spring 2008.
(See http://www.weddingbells.ca/ for more details)
Who is She?
Average age is 29 among engaged women in Canada
77% already live with their fiancé/significant other
Average household income after marriage is $83,811
The Proposal
47% of grooms asked for permission from the bride’s father before proposing
62% of grooms got down on one knee to propose
88% of brides received an engagement ring at the time of engagement; 30% of the time the ring was picked out together
The Big Day
Average expected cost is $19,038
Average wedding size is 145 guests; 22% have 200+ guests
56% of weddings occur between June and August: June (15%), July (15%), August (26%)
40% of engagements occur between December and February: December (22%), January (7%), February (11%)
Average length of engagement is 18 months
Show Me the Money
Funding for wedding: bride/groom savings (47%), bride/groom loans (14%), family (35%)
The wedding is but one spending occasion: bridal shower (85%), rehearsal party (80%), stagette (71%), engagement party (29%)
Budget breakdown based on anticipated costs:
Reception venue = $7,063
Bridal gown = $1,028
Wedding bands = $1,489
Photographer = $1,619
Wedding cake = $327
Florist/Decor = $865
Transportation/Limo = $563
DJ/Musicians = $808
Honeymoon = $4,126
Guest favours = $360 (will pay up to $469)
Bridesmaids’ Dresses = $287 (will pay up to $344)
Bridal/Bridesmaid Shoes = $109 (will pay up to $148)
Stationery = $329 (will pay up to $430)
Videographer = $792 (will pay up to $1,000)
The Honeymoon
The average honeymoon lasts 8.7 nights away from home
71% plan to spend their honeymoon outside of Canada
50% plan to stay at an all-inclusive resort
Traditional vs. Modern
69% of brides plan to take their fiancé’s last name
87% of grooms will not see the wedding dress until the wedding day
21% agree that sex before marriage is not a good idea
76% agree their future spouse does his fair share of domestic duties
68% of brides will try and use eco-friendly products and services on their wedding day
41% think it’s acceptable to return a wedding gift for cash
Things That Make You Go Hmmmm…
34% find wedding planning to be more stressful than enjoyable
23% agree a prenuptial agreement is a good idea
39% anticipate having disagreements with their in-laws
21% are having more disagreements with their fiancé since becoming engaged
31% say their sex life has improved since getting engaged
24% claim not to be completely over past relationships
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
FRESH Wedding: Michelle and Jason, June 7, 08
FRESH WEDDINGS - Michelle and Jason June 7, 2008
FRESH kicked off a hot summer with the dazzling and oh so elegant wedding of the new Michelle and Jason Widmeyer!The wedding was every bit of style with a bit of a fun twist, just like them!
Michelles Calla Lily bouquet was simple, elegant, and the perfect accent to the long flowy veil!
The centerpeices where made of both white gerber daisys and white orchids wrapped with greenery in a long and wavy vase. Paired with the asian style napkins we so carefully crafted it made a beautiful pair!
Adorable cake toppers that the couple found garage-saleing are a fun and funky way to add some spice to the traditional cake topper! The layers of delicous cupcakes where a favarote yummy treat for the guests!
These large alter vases with Gerber Daisies and Hydrangeas sat on roman pillars and where used to accent the head table at the reception. The guest favours where actually hand picked by the bride on a recent trip to the Phillipines. The sweet hand crafted wicker boxes where stuffed with delicious Lindt Lindor Chocolates...mmm
A big THANK YOU to Michelle and Jason for letting FRESH be a part of your beautiful wedding!
A big THANK YOU to Michelle and Jason for letting FRESH be a part of your beautiful wedding!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
The most darling weddings..part 1
Well I'll have to apologize about the intermittent blogging habits these days....however I am pleased (and just totally relieved!) to say that I am finished school, and can now call myself a Certified Event Manger!Well..that just sounds fancy! Anyway, back to the weddings!
You know, since I spend a good amount of time these days just LOOKING for beautiful weddings and ideas all over the world, I thought I'd start to share a few with my new and faithful blog readers!
Enjoy!
Louise
xoxox
Photos above courtesy of Joanne Gartin of Love, Luck and Angels, a brilliant wedding planner, and the author of An Inspiring guide for the stylish bride.
Photos above courtesy of Joanne Gartin of Love, Luck and Angels, a brilliant wedding planner, and the author of An Inspiring guide for the stylish bride.
These shooters of cookies and milk are a lovely idea for a late night snack. Photo cour testy of The Brides Cafe.
Some beautiful accessories...
All accessories courtesy of Estilo Weddings. Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Outdoor wedding? Hmmm....
We've all seen those adorable Mandy Moore style romances that end in possibly the most fabulous, darling outdoor weddings we've ever seen (Which might I say poses a bit of a insult to us wedding planners because this girl frolics in there after 2 weeks of planning like its just that simple!?) Not to say we don't ADORE what we do, but be warned, those breezy, beautiful summer outdoor weddings do need to be planned with the right state of mind.
Here's a few things to look out for (And a few reason's to hire a pro that knows whats going on ; )
1) Bugs. ew, I hate bugs, most of us do. On a normal day we hate bugs, and as sweet and beautiful as all my brides are, I can see their discontent while trying to pose for an outdoor photo, with mozzies squirming around them.
FRESH Solution: Tiki torches and Citronella candles are beautiful lighting accents to an outdoor wedding, and the bugs hate them. And bug spray, it's important, and don't worry, the smell dies away in minutes, but the bug deterrent lasts for hours.
2) My stilettos will get muddy = (. You've finally come across a perfect occasion to wear your Manolo Blahnik Stilettos..we don't want you sinking into the grass every step you take!
FRESH Solution: When walking down the aisle, have a carpet, red or white to protect your shoes, your dress and your balance. When its time for the sun to go down and the partying to begin, switch into some adorable flats, now we're not talking about those oh so comfy sandals that got you through that one wild summer, but classy, simple, and comfortable, wedding friendly flats (I LOVE these Verdie, Goldie by Naturalizer for only $79.00) http://www.designershoes.com/designer/product.asp?s_id=0&prod_name=VERDUM%2C+GOLDIE+BY+NATURALIZER&pf_id=PAOHIDFHHPCCNNFK&dept_id=3117)
3) Weather is unpredictable, like me. Except when I do it, its cute, when the weather decides to surprise us on our special day, its everything but cute .
FRESH Solutions: Rent a tent, and have the professionals size up your space and figure out whats the best shape and size for your type of event.
Call these local suppliers and check out their selection http://www.goodtimepartyrentals.com/ or http://www.idealrent.com/)
Louise Daly
FRESH Weddings
p.s - FRESH Weddings are now accepting clients for 2009 weddings! There are limited spots available, book your FRESH wedding planner today!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Invitations
My BFF I were sitting at the Good Earth Cafe a few weeks ago, and met the lady who makes “Papers in Harmony” Wedding Stationers in Calgary, AB.
Check out their website here www.papersinharmony.com
5 things to watch for when buying wedding invitations:
1) Attention to detail – Invitations are all about detail, so really take a look at the DETAIL in their work, the size, shape, wording, alignment, etc.
2) Creativity -Guaranteed all of your guests have a few invitations up on their fridge already for the summer, so make sure your provider of invitations is unique and creative in their work.
3) Beware of added costs – although it may say $2/per print, make sure to ask what that includes, and get a detailed quote from them before you order.
4) Get the deets – Ask where the invitations are made, and by who. Ask how long they are going to take, and be sure you get a sample sent after you have chosen your writing, you want to make sure it’s correct before 200 copies are made.
Our picks for ceremony music
It’s not just a song...it’s the sound of that one euphoric moment when you finally see him at the end of the aisle, that surreal state that’s been buzzing about in your mind since that mundane grade 8 English class. Choose it wisely. Listen to different pieces with your finance and choose one that speaks to both of you! It’s okay to be non-traditional and it’s okay to choose your own path and be creative.Here are a few of our favourites for the ceremony, listen to the samples, close your eyes, and picture him there waiting for you...
Air on a G String - Serenade Classical Collection - http://www.tcartermusic.com/music/serenade/listen-serenade.html
Sheep May Safely Graze - Serenade Classical Collection - http://www.tcartermusic.com/music/serenade/listen-serenade.html
Cannon in D II – (Choose option 9) http://www.weddingmusiccentral.com/for_your_wedding_ceremony.php
Prelude in C (I) – (choose option 11) http://www.weddingmusiccentral.com/for_your_wedding_ceremony.php
THE BRIDAL CHORUS (From "Lohengrin") (Choose option 14) http://www.weddingmusiccentral.com/for_your_wedding_ceremony.php
From a Distance, Julie Gold (Option 19)
http://www.myweddingmusic.com/Music/CeremonyMusic.asp
http://www.myweddingmusic.com/Music/CeremonyMusic.asp
For a groovier, retro couple I suggest:
Imagine – John Lennon (Choose option 20)
http://www.myweddingmusic.com/Music/ProcessionalMusic.aspResources:
www.myweddingmusic.com
www.weddingmusiccentral.com
www.tcartermusic.com
Questions from my brides
As a wedding planner today, there is no end to the amount of new ideas, new approaches, and ever blooming creativity that made your weddings that extra something beautiful and special; that will make that brides heart flutter at the very thought of that one magical day.
However, I have to admit a few difficult questions from my lovely and ever so curious brides has got me head in the books, grinding the cups of my double espresso lattes; exhausted, and nothing to write.
After much research, some broken pencils, and plenty of grating the minds of the versatile young women around me, I have conducted some answers to your questions!
How do I incorporate a lost loved one into my wedding day?
Memoral Vase by Jean M Wedding Favours
Most couples are dealing with a loss before the wedding day, in some way or another. Of course you want to honour this person, without leaving a sombre memory of your wedding.
You wouldn’t want 2 men walking the one bridesmaid down the aisle, but you don’t want to hurt his feelings or disrespect him either. He was chosen to be the best man because he is close to the groom’s heart, and an important part of his life. And you’re certainly not going to CUT a bridesmaid to ‘even things out’!?
First what you need to do, weather there is another best man or not, is find a way to incorporate the far away cousin into the wedding, after all he was so excited to take part in your special day, and now has no choice but to sit back and wait for the pictures.
Have the groom or one of the groomsmen make a toast to him and acknowledge that he was supposed to be a special part of the wedding, and talk about what a good friend he is to the groom. If the groom has another special person in his life that would be honoured to be part of the bridal party, maybe make him a groomsman, and ask one of the other groomsmen to be the best man (This doesn’t tend to be that dramatic of a role change with the men).
Chair covers are so very important! If you have a wedding planner, she will most likely be able to pull some strings in her book of contacts and come through for you (One of the many perks of having a pro take care of the dirty work!) however, if you must do without, I would suggest renting pretty chairs that do not require chair covers.
Another idea is to purchase some chiffon material from your local fabric store, and drape it around the chair, with one single flower in the bow to add a touch of class and glamour!
However, I have to admit a few difficult questions from my lovely and ever so curious brides has got me head in the books, grinding the cups of my double espresso lattes; exhausted, and nothing to write.
After much research, some broken pencils, and plenty of grating the minds of the versatile young women around me, I have conducted some answers to your questions!
How do I incorporate a lost loved one into my wedding day?
Memoral Vase by Jean M Wedding Favours
Most couples are dealing with a loss before the wedding day, in some way or another. Of course you want to honour this person, without leaving a sombre memory of your wedding.
- Leave a flower on the guest’s chairs. Choose a flower that you feel represents them, or maybe one you know they loved, and place one on each guest’s seat at the ceremony. Your pastor or efficient can find a way to incorporate the meaning of that flower with everyone during your ceremony. This simple and meaningful gesture is a beautiful for everyone to honour them.
- A memorial table at the reception is also a nice way to honour a lost one. Candles, photos, words of grace, a bouquet, or a special heirloom of their like a painting or an ornament, can all be used to honour the memory and have them in spirit at your wedding. If you don’t want to do a whole table, place some of these items at the registration table, or at the altar.
- Feel their presence with music, or in silence. For a more sentimental or moving symbol of remembrance, have a moment of silence to remember them, or a moment with a beautiful song that reflects them playing softly in the back ground.
- Cheers! For a more light-hearted gesture, have a toast to them, or in general, loved ones that couldn’t be with us today. They lead wonderful lives, and it’s a more cheery way to incorporate them into your special day.
- Most importantly, remember that in physical presence or not, they want so much for you to enjoy this happy and special day.
You wouldn’t want 2 men walking the one bridesmaid down the aisle, but you don’t want to hurt his feelings or disrespect him either. He was chosen to be the best man because he is close to the groom’s heart, and an important part of his life. And you’re certainly not going to CUT a bridesmaid to ‘even things out’!?
First what you need to do, weather there is another best man or not, is find a way to incorporate the far away cousin into the wedding, after all he was so excited to take part in your special day, and now has no choice but to sit back and wait for the pictures.
Have the groom or one of the groomsmen make a toast to him and acknowledge that he was supposed to be a special part of the wedding, and talk about what a good friend he is to the groom. If the groom has another special person in his life that would be honoured to be part of the bridal party, maybe make him a groomsman, and ask one of the other groomsmen to be the best man (This doesn’t tend to be that dramatic of a role change with the men).
Make sure the groom talks to him, and lets him know that he is saddened he couldn’t be there, and cherishes his friendship, however as a wedding planner I have to say, the show must go on, and a good friend will understand that.
Our parents don’t have a wedding fund for us, and we are getting married in 6 months!?
This does tend to put a damper on the excitement for a newly engaged couple. Instead of picking china patterns and choosing between hydrangeas or Calla lilies, they are thinking “How are we seriously supposed to pay for 150 people’s dinner!?”
You first need to sit down and decide what your priorities are. And okay ladies, although your focus is on flowers, decor, and a Bernard Callebaut chocolate fountain, this is probably not what your fiancée is thinking; after all, he is paying for half of the wedding.
Don’t feel guilty, there’s nothing wrong with wanting these things for your most special day, however it’s likely that your fiancée is probably thinking about venue, catering, and honeymoon costs.
- Sit down together and talk about what’s really important to both of you, and how you can incorporate both your priorities to find a middle place where you can both get what you want, without breaking your budget. You may have to say goodbye to that Vera Wang dress from the new collection, but you could check out E-Bay instead, you’d be surprised how much you can save by buying a from a collection a few years dated.
- People don’t remember the beef or chicken. Let’s be honest, unless you’re at the TomKat wedding the food is mass produced and out of a warmer in the back. Cut back on expensive meal costs, and use those funds towards a scrumptious desert, or a mojito ice sculpture fountain...this is the stuff people really remember. Not the chicken, beef, or the fish, because honestly, they’re all waiting for the desert and drinks.
- Put your Prada bag away and get earthy! You’re honeymoon may not be Italy romance or a cruise where your spoiled rotten, but that doesn’t mean it’s not going to be fantastic! Try a wine tour in the Okanagan, or trek over to experience Niagara Falls; you’d be surprised how much these places have to offer!
- Your honeymoon is a time for you and your new hubby to indulge in your love and enjoy the euphoric state of being newlyweds, don’t let smaller budget take away from all the beautiful moments; because life is going to be full of challenges, and its up to you, and him, to make the best of everything, and as long as you do it together, I have a feeling you’ll be just fine!
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The Decor Rental Company just told me there are no chair covers left for us, and I’m getting married in 3 weeks!? And the chairs at the venue are just hideous!
Chair covers are so very important! If you have a wedding planner, she will most likely be able to pull some strings in her book of contacts and come through for you (One of the many perks of having a pro take care of the dirty work!) however, if you must do without, I would suggest renting pretty chairs that do not require chair covers.
Another idea is to purchase some chiffon material from your local fabric store, and drape it around the chair, with one single flower in the bow to add a touch of class and glamour!
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Say 'I do' to our earth!
Tips on how to perfect your organic, eco-chic wedding- Give your guests a refreshing treat with a simple package of seeds with ribbon, or you can skip out on the favors, and leave more funds for the wine, or a donation in their name to a meaningful cause. (What a wonderful way to make a difference and give back!)
- When choosing decor less is more. Go for quality with your decor, as oppose to quantity. Tent poles or arches can simply be decorated with tree branches and leaves. If you can find them from nearby land being cleared for development, that’s even better.
- Natural rocks around a green tea scented organic candle or rocks from a recent trip are a wonderful earthy way to use our earth’s natural resources for decor at your wedding.
- Another fun idea is have each table named after a tree, a park or a flower.
- A bamboo centerpiece with rocks are simple and beautiful as well. The bamboo plant holds cultural significance in countries such as China, and the plant is known to bring peace, lucky, and joy.
- Organic cloth bags packed with lavender for a favours and gifts is also a wonderful idea.
- And to add a touch to the overall decor, use organic style moss green vines and leaves adorning the arch or back of the chairs.
- Don’t focus on being perfect it can’t all be organic and that’s okay!
- Need an extra way to make a difference? Focus on one area that is important to you, and have a donation fund set up for this cause (You can have this in addition to or instead of a gift registry.) So for example you can set up a fund supporting local artists, or go big with funding for water preservation or recycling.
Organic Wedding Catering..with a FRESH Approach!
FRESH Event Management has created a 5 step perfect guide to creating the dream organic, green friendly wedding that every bride can incorporate in to their special day!Organic food at your wedding has never tasted soo yummy!!
Organic wedding or not, food is the most talked about critiqued part of any wedding!!! So if there is anywhere you want to stand out and be different, FOOD is the place to start!!
Pamper your guest with a delicious, wholesome and organic meal that everyone will be raving about!
With so much mass production and preservation with our food today, serving an organic meal at your wedding makes a huge difference in the overall quality of the event.
Now, although we are the BEST wedding planners, organic food selection is really not our, forte...
So Louise at FRESH Weddings caught up with Liana McDaniel, a Hostilic Nutritionist serving western canada to get answers we all need answers too when it comes to organic eating at your wedding....
Do you ALWAYS eat organic food? I mean, can you really get EVERYTHING organic?
I would have to say that my diet is approximately 85% organic. I travel a lot for my job and I do enjoying eating out and trying new cuisines so I can’t always be sure I’m eating organic. As far as the food in my house goes it is almost all organic, especially produce. As a general rule I recommend clients follow the “dirty dozen” when starting to go organic. The “dirty dozen” are 12 foods that you should always have organic because they are the most heavily contaminated with pesticides, herbicides, antibiotics, steroids and hormones. The Dirty Dozen includes strawberries, apples, tomatoes, grapes, celery, bell peppers, spinach, peaches, potatoes, broccoli and all meat and dairy products.
I prefer to eat organic because not only are the farming practices more eco friendly but because it tastes phenomenally better and the food is cleaner and healthier for you. Now a days you can buy almost everything organic from pop and chips to lipstick and shampoo. The possibilities are endless.
We all want to eat organic food at our wedding, but the catering is already costing us almost half our budget!
How can we serve our guests organic choices without breaking the bank?
That’s a very good question. Typically organic food is more expensive than conventional food but it is also a lot more reasonable to purchase organic food now than it was 5 or 10 years ago. More and more people are starting to take control of their own health and the environment and each time you purchase organic food you are sending a message that is it in demand which in turn has been bringing prices down. If you are serious and passionate about serving organic food but worried about the budget I would stick to the Dirty Dozen rule again and that way you are ensuring the most contaminated foods are not going to be served to your guests.
What would you suggest for a yummy and organic food selection at a wedding?
To start I would recommend a nice light organic green mix salad with a hemp oil dressing that will provide a light nutty flavor and a good dose of the essential fatty acids omega 3 and 6. The salad can be paired with some lavash or a freshly made multigrain roll. Main course can be a wild salmon entrée with lightly steamed and seasoned organic vegetables served over quinoa (pronounced keen-wa). Quinoa is an ancient grain that has been rapidly growing in popularity because it’s extremely nutrient dense, a complete protein and cooks up the same as rice. It also reasonably priced and less of an allergen because it doesn’t contain gluten, unlike rice which also offers very little in nutrients especially if it is white.
Should we have a plated dinner? Wouldn’t a buffet be a waste of food?
A plated dinner would the more eco friendly way to go because every one would be served proper portion sizes and there would definitely be less waste. I find as well when people are served properly combined foods that are nutrient dense it will help to slow down digestion and balance blood sugar levels keeping your guests fuller for longer.
What if there is a vegan at my wedding, what should we feed them?
What about the vegetarians, would that be the same meal?
If you are aware a head of time if there is going to be a vegan at your wedding it is important to offer some choices that they can enjoy and tell the caterer a head of time so they can be sure to prepare something appropriate. Catering companies should be aware of difference between a vegetarian and vegan but incase they don’t the difference is that a vegetarian typically doesn’t consume animal flesh but may still consume eggs and dairy and a vegan doesn’t consume any animal products whatsoever including diary, eggs, honey or the plethora of animal by-products that are hidden in our food like gelatin, casein, A vegetarian can always eat vegan food but it can’t go the other way so if you are unsure if your guest is a full vegan just air on the side of caution and have a vegan meal prepared.
What about dessert? Is there even a point trying to have an ‘organic dessert?’
Well, as a Nutritionist I would recommend staying away from refined sugars and try to choose healthier alternatives everyday but this is your wedding and if the cake you want isn’t sweetened with stevia I wouldn’t sweat it. If you do want to have an organic dessert I am sure it would be possible and using stevia as a sugar alternative is a great idea because it is completely natural. Another good thing about stevia is that it has no effect on your blood sugar levals and is therefore completely safe for diabetics. One thing to take note of about stevia is that it’s 300 times sweeter than sugar so you only need a very small amount. If you are interested in baking with it there are conversion charts that can be found online.
We’re definitely going to be serving wine, can that be organic too?
Absolutely and it tastes better too! It also comes with less chance of a hang over because it doesn’t contain sulfites, the known preservative added to wine and also one of the top ten most common allergens. Organic wine is becoming more popular and is usually not that much more expensive. I would certainly consider looking into this because your guests will thank you in the morning.
What about the other drinks at the bar? I hear you can get organic beer even…
Organic beer is available however it depends on your budget and the availability in your area that might pose to be a challenge. Also, most people have a preference to the type of beer they consume and might prefer their own brew in the end.
Any other suggestions on ‘going green’ at a wedding?
I am not too familiar with the inner workings of what exactly goes into preparing for a wedding as I have only been to a few and have never had to plan one but I can imagine that there can be plenty of opportunities for unnecessary waste to occur. Basically, any aspect of your wedding can be greener from utilizing organic linens to hiring a florist that prepares organic arrangements that don’t use harsh pesticides and foams that leach formaldehyde and don’t biodegrade. The term organic doesn’t refer only to food and not only is it important for us to reduce the amount of chemicals we ingest and are exposed to but it is also extremely important for the environment that this kind of chemical exposure is reduced as well. This is why we are seeing options for organic linens, flowers and stationary.
Depending on how serious the bride and groom are about planning a green wedding will depend on how far they will take it. Even by choosing a couple aspects to make green you are still raising awareness and passing the message along to your guests. It doesn’t take a lot for us to reduce our ecological imprint on the earth and if every one started by doing something simple and small like changing out the light bulbs in your homes to more energy efficient ones and keeping up on our car maintenance to ensure it is running with optimum fuel efficiency will make a big difference in the end. There are a hundred opportunities everyday to make environmentally friendly choices that don’t take a lot of effort.
A good book to read if you are just learning about the environment but not sure where to start is “The Lazy Environmentalist: Your Guide to Easy, Stylish Green Living”. There is also a lot of information and resources online you can utilize as well.
Liana McDaniel, RHN lianamcdaniel@gmail.com
Liana McDaniel is a Holistic Nutritionist with a strong interest in alternative health and preventative medicine. Her passions were sparked 3 years ago when she took a position at a Naturopath’s clinic in Calgary, where she first learned the benefits of achieving homeostasis within the body through diet, supplement and lifestyle recommendations. Her experiences at the clinic lead her to pursue a diploma in Holistic Nutrition where she can now share her knowledge and passions with others.
Stay tuned for the next part of our organic bride series, where we will talk about green freindly invitations!
Louise Daly
FRESH Weddings and Events
http://www.fresheventmanagement.com/
louise@fresheventmanagement.com
Say 'I do' to our earth! Part 1: The dress
There's really nothing more FRESH than a bride who knows her worth, AND the value of our earth! In a consumption obsessed society, there's no better time to start thinking green, than while your planning your wedding! I'll show you how to incorporate a 'green' friendly attitude into every aspect of your wedding, from the dress, the invitations, the food, the decor, to the favors, florals, and how to do it all (of course!) with a fresh approach!
THE DRESS
Would I call it an "organic" dress? It does sound a bit odd, I mean, food is organic! Don't be mislead by the myth that eating right is all you can do to take care of yourself, and the earth.
Start by adapting a general attitude of conservation. And while a beautiful bride starts with perfect dress, I bet you didn't know that the average dress takes 15 meters or more fabric to make? (Who cares, its MY wedding dress!!) I understand! We should, however, also consider though that often dresses are made in China using child labour and/or environmentally harmful chemicals. And it usually costs more than $1,000. Instead, you could buy a gown made by a local designer. Or choose a dress you can wear more than once or consider a recycled or rented dress. We recommends one of the beautiful eco-couture Audrey Hemp gowns made in Europe. Designer styled voluptuously with wild raw silk, these timeless gowns are simple, elegant, and completely sustainable. No sweatshop, child labour or under waged labour.
And no worries, organic and fair trade doesn't always mean more money! This line up of dresses starts at a completely affordable $369! (Go to http://www.rawganique.com/ to find out where you can pick one up!)Or if this design isn't your cup of tea, choose something for you and your ladies of a silk or natural fabric, and it's even better if you can find something you can all wear again!
Note: When buying the gown check with wedding shop and ask for a history on where the dress was made. All wedding shops should be able to tell you if this was manufactured locally or not , and it's best not to buy online as you really have no idea this way, where or who its coming from.
Stay tuned for our next blog featuring organic wedding cuisine, where we interviewed Liana McDaniel, a professional Hostilic Nutritionist in western canada!
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